Happy Halloween

I have great memories of dressing up for Halloween when I was growing up. I think for five years in a row I was Pippi Longstockings... another year I was an "M&M" with another 'emily'. Although I'm not a big fan of all the creepy stuff that goes along with Halloween I definitely think it's simply a 'fun' holiday. THe festivities started yesterday as the kids dressed up and we went to Papa Paul's and Gramma Lori's. We 'trick-or-treated' and then hung out for the night eating yummy food and playing. The highlight of the night was definitely opening up an early Eliott bday present - Racin' Roadie.... a hilarious toy for a one year old boy who loves to climb and bounce. He even 'bucked' him off a few times. Today we started the evening at the Hansen house. Madison goes here in the mornings a couple days a week and we both love it there. It was fun that we all got to stick around this time enjoying yummy treats and cute kids. AFter we left, Madison kept saying, "Mom, more Jess's house." Then we headed out to the Yoder house for our first trick-or-treating. Madison is definitely a kid who needs to know what's going to happen before it happens and she usually processes it for days before. I told Matt to tell her what to do and the conversation went something like this. "Madison, we are going to walk around to people's houses, and when they answer the door say 'trick-or-treat' and they will give you candy. You can't do this every day, just on halloween". It was pretty funny the first time she went up to a house. We went with our bible study kids which consists of 7 or so little people. Most of the rest of the kids rushed up to the door while Madison stuck in the back. She watched as the lady put candy in everyone's pumpkins. You could tell she was pretty confused and was trying to figure out what to make of the situation. She needed about ten minutes to process the situation but the lady threw a piece of candy in her pumpkin and the rest of the kids headed back to their parents. She stood there, still not quite sure of the situation and not quite ready to turn around. It didn't take her long to catch on and she went up to several houses... but each time you could tell she was a bit confused by the whole process. Her personality continues to come out as she grows... an incredibly sweet girl who totally processes (in her own "Madi-time" each situation she is in. A fun couple of days for the Hofferts :).

Eliott is 11 months

11 1/2 months and you are definitely one amazing little boy. You crack us up daily. Lately you have been into putting things on your head and seeing if they balance. For examply, when you were sitting at dinner, after you had finished eating, you decided to entertain yourself with your bib. You would stretch up and put it on top of your bib, slowly let go, and see if it balanced on your head. Then you would look around to see if anyone was going to laugh with you. You do this with other random object around the house. The other day you were trying to get a toy pot to balance on your head and you somehow got it to stick out the back of your shirt. You thought this was hilarious... as did I. The other thing you love is you 'toot and scoot'. This toy is a riding toy that goes in every direction. You got on that thing for the first time and figured out how to make yourself go. Now you can get on and off of it and scoot all around the house. You love to climb up and on anything. You climb up onto the lego table chairs and grab onto the back of the chair and just shake it... sometimes tipping yourself over. Oh, the many things you have done to keep yourself entertained... you are just discovering the world every day!

You still love to eat... pretty much anything. I was telling Madison yesterday that we were having mushroom, swiss, avocado sandwiches. She proceeded to tell me that she did not like avocado or mushrooms and didn't want them on her sandwich... but then told me that you did like them and that you would want them. She has even picked up on the fact that you will try anything. You are not a walker yet. You have been a bit more interested in walking around furniture and behind push toys, but still haven't decided to try out walking quite yet. You are quite the stander and let me tell you, you have an incredibly speedy crawl. The other day you were playing on the floor with your two binkies in front of you. Madison was in a bit of a 'two-year-old' mood and decided to come over (for no reason at all) and chuck your binkies across the room. Her and I were going around about how she needed to find them and give them back to you. Meanwhile, you had seemed to forget about it and had left the room. Madison was not returning them to you and we had the conversation of whether or not she would appreciate you taking her 'mimi's' from her. Just then, you came speed crawling into the room with her mimi in your mouth. I burst out laughing... its seemed as if you new exactly what you were doing.

You are working your way into a single nap and pretty much did that on your own very easily. You still do a great job at night (in your crib in Mom and Dad's room) and you are starting to wean onto whole milk. Once again, you don't seem to mind what it is you are eating or drinking, as long as it fills your tummy.

Overall you are our precious blue-eyed, sandy brown, curly haired boy. You whole family adores you!!!

Another good talk with Madison...

Madison has always been a terrible milk drinker... ever since I weaned her from breast milk when she was a year. I have had several talks with her about how milk is good for her and helps her to grow up big and strong.

Tonight at the dinner table it was just her and I and Eliott. We didn't have very much milk so I poured her a cup of milk and I had a glass of water. The conversation went as follows.

Madison - "Mom, can I have water?"

Mom - "Madison, you need milk because it helps make you strong."

Madison - "Does water make you little?"

I laughed and then she says, "Mom, what you laughin at?"

Please!

Today... Eliott signed his first sign.

I haven't been great at teaching Eliott signs like I was with Madison, but I haven't quit. I loved it when Madison could tell me what she wanted using her hands instead of her cry. Whenver I have tried to teach Eliott something, like signing, he just sits there and giggles at me as if he's saying, 'good job, mom, that's neat you can do that' :), but has no interest in repeating me. Tonight, I was holding Eliott and he didn't have his shirt on so he was patting his belly. He also wanted apples from dinner and was going 'ah, ah, ah'. I showed him 'please' and he did it a couple more times. It was incredibly cute for me, so even if it's a one time thing it was worth the post!

Conversations with Madison

I had an interesting conversation with Madison tonight. Let me set it up... It was about 8:15 and I had already put Eliott in bed. Matt was hunting so it was just Madison and I in a quiet house sitting at the kitchen table frosting and eating a sugar cookie. When it was time to eat them, she asked if she could have some of mine. I told her that if she was going to have a bite of mine, she had to give me a bit of hers. We had this same conversation last night, where she wasn't quite so sure about this, but tonight it was a yes. So, I took a little bite out of her cookie and then handed her mine. She took it and took a bit and then proceeded to shove the rest of the cookie in her mouth. It was as if she couldn't help it. When she realized that I no longer had a cookie sitting in front of me, she took a tiny little slobbery bite from her mouth and handed it to me. I took it and ate it. She asked me "What happened, Mom?". I told her that she ate my cookie and now I didn't have a cookie left. I was really interested in how she was going to handle this because I could totally tell she felt bad about what just happened. She asked me the same question and I told her the same response about ten times (no exaggeration). Finally she told me, "Mom, you can have have more later." This comes out of Madison's mouth as "Mom, ooo can have mowe yater". I told her that there wasn't any more. Keep in mind she has about 4/5 of her cookie left on the table. She sat for a long time just staring and thinking. We had borrowed the cookie cutters from Ayden's house, which prompted her next idea. "Mom, you can have more at Ayden's house". I told her that Ayden didn't have any at his house. She sat for awhile longer, then looked at me in the sweetest little voice and said, "Mom, you can have mine"... which came out sounding like, "Mom, ooo can have mime". I was over-joyed at her thoughtfulness to give up her cookie. Then she proceeded to pick off the tiniest crumb and hand it to me. I asked her if that was all I get. So she picked off two tiny crumbs and handed them to me. I took them and said thank you. She sat there awhile longer and said, "Mom, you can have a big bite of my cookie"... sounding like, "Mom, ooo can have a bib bite of my tootie". She handed me the cookie and I took a 'big' bite. She has such a sweet heart. Then she told me that I could get more at the store tomorrow... :).

Book Tower

Madison still continues to be totally into books. She will sometimes just flip through the pages and other times really look hard at one. The other day I watched her (unknowingly to her) look at an alphabet book. She was going through the letters, naming each letter (getting about a third of them correct) and then naming the object or animal next to it. I hear, "S... zebra, Y... hmmmm (it was a yak), m... monkey)." She will also just sit there by herself counting things in the books. She does much better reading to herself (in my opinion :)), but still LOVES for us to read to her. I can barely get through a page, though, since she asks question after question about each page... questions she usually already knows the answers to. For example, in reading through a Pooh book, "Mom, Piglet sad? Piglet crying? Mom, what Tigger doing? Mom, where's Pooh? ..."

The other day, Eliott had gone to bed, and she was keeping herself very quiet and busy in the living room. When I had finished washing dishes I went in to check on her. She was flipping through a book, then putting it into a pile. When i had arrived, she had quite the impressive pile! She was quite proud of it when I snapped a picture :).

daily conversation with our sweet little two year old

Matt - "Goodnight baby girl."
Madison - "Daddy, I'm not a baby, I'm a BIG GIRL." (phonetically, it would sound... Daddy, I not a baby, I a bid dirl)

Hoffert/Perez Family Annual Dutch Oven Cook-off!

Well, I have been married into the Hoffert/Perez family for almost six years, but have never been able to get to one of their annual Dutch oven cook-offs... most years it has been b/c we have been gone, but a few others we were planning on going. One time we were planning on going, we watched the weather the whole day and just as we were getting ready to leave, the radar showed a red line right through Pine Lake. The other time it was sleeting. I tell you this only because this family is hard core... rain or shine they go. Anyway, this year it was an AWESOME day and we were committed to going.... and we had soooo much fun. When we got there around four, the dutch ovens were already on the fire cooking away. The countdown began around 4:30 and by 5:00 the meals were pulled off and the competition was to begin....

Everything was incredibly yummy... the beef stew was made by Sue (Matt's Mom) - who is the reining champ, Matt's Aunt Karen made the BBQ pork, his Grandma made the tamales (I guess when you are a Mexican family, you make tamales in the dutch oven :)... a first for me), and his Uncle Tony and Angie made the amazing Pasta dish that tasted like it was from Olive Garden. After we all pigged out, including rolls and Apple Crisp also made by Karen, we voted for our favorite. The drum-roll sounded as Mallori (my future sis-in-law) and Matt's Dad counted the ballets. It was a TIE! The tamales and the Pasta went head to head on a tie-breaker, only to come up dead even again. Tony gave the title to his Mom, and Sue handed the trophy (reluctantly) to Phyllis.

After dinner we headed to the park with the kids to play and take a few family pics. A VERY fun afternoon with Matt's family.

10 months... and still growing!

Your tenth month is through and I can't believe it. You are such a little boy these days. As others have said, and I agree, we didn't realize how 'big' you are until you started to stand up. It's like you unravel as you push up onto your feet, then slowly up to a standing position with your arms straight out in front of you for balance. You look up with a hug smile, hang out for awhile, then slowly sit back down. You haven't even thought about stepping yet, you're just content hanging out. Like your sis, you have decided to get very good at the standing thing before you try to walk. You are definitely a do-it-yourself kind of guy, climbing and getting in to everything. I often look over to find you crawling up, over, and under many things. I have been amazed at how you just do things to do them... not really with any other goal in mind. For example, last night you were trying to crawl up onto the diaper box... your only goal was to get all fours up off the floor. You weren't trying to reach anything or get anywhere, just see if you could do it. You have had fun working on stairs as well. Since we don't have any in our house, anytime you find some (Grammas and papa's, or outside our house), they keep you busy for a long time. You know what 'turn around' means but you have only mastered it with one step. The other day, you turned around for the first step off the deck, then turned around and did a face dive off the second one right into the dirt. You usually just roll over and pop right back up from these falls, unless it was a tough one (then you cry for a moment, then move on). You smile and laugh ALL the time. Your sister is still best at making you laugh... you love watching her do pretty much anything. You have been so fun to watch grow and it is truly amazing how much you have grown, changed, and learned over the last year. You do a great job of sleeping now (sigh from mom :), and dad), and still take two naps each day (but may be getting closer to one). These days you will just play in your crib... sometimes for 20 minutes or so, then just clonk out. I'm proud of you for that! You love pretty much anything physical, but some of your favorites are playing on the bed (you will 'stand up' on your knees, get this huge smile, and then just belly flop onto the bed), swinging, playing in the dirt, and being tickled. You also love to eat... still. You have no interest in sitting still to eat from mom and you are starting to ween yourself. You still have those beautiful big blue eyes and wonderfully crazy curly 'sandy' blonde hair. Pretty much to sum it all up, you are the best and we are totally in love with you little man!!!

Bible Study Kiddos

What a fun crew! We will have to get another one soon with sweet little Danica!